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Thursday, July 17, 2008

Snack Time?

I just met a hot young man, 19 to be exact, that a friend brought over when she visited at 1:00 am.


She had called me about 10:24 pm to tell me about him, ....I was not in the mood I told her. A few minutes later she called and wanted to borrow something, and I said okay, but she would have to come over here. (we live about 5 blocks away from each other)

When she came in, behind her came this strapping young man about 6'2", in very fit condition with tats all down his arms... (at this point I must say that tattoos on a fit man is a turn on for me)....seeing the tats, I assumed he had been around (criminal circles) ...and after he had me check his warrant status on the PC , I wasn't surprised.

Yet . . . now I was getting interested, (as usual) I go for the Bad

Now of course I'm hoping to see him again in the not to distant future . . .like tomorrow, or later tonight (wishful thinking).

I certainly need a man, it's been waaaaaaaaaaay tooooooo long, yet these cute twinks are just snack material, they usually can't be depended on and there eye is quickly distracted.

Regardless ... I'm going to make the most of this situation.
posted by David G. at 2:50 AM


Now I've blushed...just what kinda, out-of-the-closet Gay man am I anyway? Afterall, it's not like I wasn't a frequenter of the Gay Bars/beyond in San Francisco from age 18 onward...sheesh, maybe I'm just getting old or simply a hypocrit, afterall, Juan Carlos is only 32! YIKES!

7/17/2008 11:54 AM  

Or maybe I'm just a old hypocrite combo?

Anyway, take care, be cautious around "substances" and keep your eye on reality if you start to swoon.

Enough, with the old-man advise.

Love to you,

7/17/2008 11:57 AM  

I realize I'm the last person you want to hear from giving advice, David.

But, a nineteen year old is basically a kid for heaven's sake, and probably really troubled to boot if he has a criminal record.

You have so much to give.

Aren't you just setting yourself up to be really hurt, and disappointed more in the long run?

Wouldn't it be good to find a Christian man closer to your own age to love you for yourself, and not just for these one night type stands(snack candy.)

Be safe!

Your sister,

7/17/2008 2:01 PM  


David G,

Hey. I have three big tatt's (that's not a come-on, that's just sayin' that we don't all have records...LOL).

Also to say that I'd like to list your blog on mine as a "friend". Is that ok with you?

7/17/2008 7:37 PM  

That's fine Scott, but beware...sometimes I whack out.

It's best to warn people ahead of time, that way I'm not responsible for later consequences.

It's like a disclosure

7/17/2008 8:30 PM  

Um Grace,

If I said it was a 19 yr old woman, would your reaction be the same?!?

18 and over is LEGAL, ...14 in some places.

I'm not looking for a relationship, and I hardly think this will be a one time thing, I have a couple friends with benefits, ...but none as striking as Brian.

And hell, if you don't use it, you loose it!!

7/17/2008 8:39 PM  

LOL Leonardo,

I'm not letting my life stop just because Granny drives me nuts. If I'm still worth looking at and the guys still want it, who am I to get in their way?!?

Caution is ALWAYS TAKEN when sex or substances are involved, and more so should they get inter-twined.

7/17/2008 8:46 PM  

Thanks, David. I'm honoured to be your "friend".

7/17/2008 9:00 PM  

You better believe it, David. If my stepdaughter came home with a man in his mid-forties when she was an older teenager, her Dad and I would have had a fit, and a prayer session.


P.S. Hi, Fr. Scott. Hugs to you too.

7/17/2008 9:41 PM  

But I easily pass for 32.

7/17/2008 9:53 PM  

and I pass for pre-death with good skin/teeth...besides, it's never been a age thing for me...when I was young I didn't notice ages so much...until I got older...I admire younger people who are like us a seem to have a healthy point of view, enjoy raising families that sort of "normal" thing but there are sooo many younger men who like older men (you don't get to know that until you are one)...btw, thanks for "linking" my blog, I didn't realize it required ettiquet to do it and I had yours listed too...Scotts too and I didn't know it was him...what about YOU, Grace, have you taken to editorializing truth about YOU and your family and YOUR everyday, faithfully participated in, Christian life?

It does take guts to write in REAL for all to see (including me getting to see exactly how ANGRY I am on the subject of LGBT abuse/exclusion...I didn't notice until I started seeing me write about's kinda like jounaling (albeit for the world) and people send the most fascinating, and generally supportive, private letters...extra sweet).

Grace is right, watch the youngster!


7/17/2008 10:38 PM  

On another note:

Just thinking. One of the things I've ALWAYS loved about being a Gay man is that our CULTURE (you know the one we operate in outside of the OTHER culture that we belong to also) has always MIXED very well with one wonder we have a BROADER world view...afterall, when one, from age 18 in my case, goes to a bar where there are 100's of people of every color, religion/or not, age, height, weight who are forced to go underground together and develop a's hardly surprising that we *know* one another quite well...intimately well one might say...hardly a typical situation for others that exclude us from their "system" to be critiquing...however, really nice guys are out there in every kind of packaging...lovely people that are, or can be, devoted and lifelong friends.

We're a very lucky group but I rarely expect, or even want to discuss with anyone else the many reasons why.

7/17/2008 10:54 PM  

I've been burned enough times by so-called friends, to be quite careful around people whom I've just been acquainted with.

I learned early on (living in the Sunshine State) that some of the nicest people in the world will still RIP YOU OFF, if given the chance.

That is why the few friends I hang around I can say I trust, and the person who introduced me to Brian, has known him for 10 years.

Anyway I usually, 9 times out of 10 I am straight on when it comes to personalities of people, as trusting goes, ...I've had quite a bit experience in that field, not to mention that I study people all the time, trying to figure them out.

7/17/2008 11:45 PM  


I'm too old to pass for anything other than myself. It catches up with you eventually...and it is very good.


7/18/2008 2:11 AM  

If you have insurance,..but people like myself just suffer along.

Or Not.

7/18/2008 2:27 AM  

Nope. It's all good. I'm not going to tell anything more about that here. Leavin' ya hangin' on that one.


7/18/2008 2:31 AM  


I'm NOT going there, would have to be a really desperate, lonely time to go there, which has entered my life many times.

I deal with it, obviously,..I'm still here!!

Rest easy Scott, ... I'm looked

7/18/2008 2:44 AM  

Oh, Leonardo,

Hope I'm not giving the impression that I have this perfect family. It would be a lie. We have all sorts of problems. I have some kids serving the Lord, and others not. And, we all need the grace of God.

You have a point. There are some young people who are more mature for their age. But, truly, I have 5 sons. I couldn't see any of them, at 19 really ready for a mature, committed relationship, especially with someone much older.

But, I guess it does depend on the person, their experience, and where their head is at. I think it's different, though, once someone is an older adult. Then the age difference does seem less significant.

My opinion, anyway.

7/18/2008 8:20 AM  

Grace, I'm not looking for a committed relationship.

I'm like your sons, just lookin' for whatever comes along.

7/18/2008 10:07 AM  

Well, ((David G.))) we could really, really get into this together, but I know you're not asking for advice, and as a straight middle-aged mom, I'm definitely not the best person to be talkin with you.

I do share with my sons that I think their degree of physical intimacy with the young ladies should match the level of love, caring, and committment that's actually there, and that God should also be honored in the relationship.

Of course, not all have listened to my counsel. My one son got in over his head, and was badly burned.

But, anyway, David, I love ya. You're my brother in Christ, and we should hold each other in prayer.

P.S. I'm enjoying all your colorful, celestial pictures.

7/18/2008 3:49 PM  

Thank You Grace,

I love a good capture of God's works!!

7/22/2008 12:48 AM  

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